Marriage is…what YOU want it to be!

One thing that I have learned in my whole 3 months of marriage(Yes I’m counting) is that we can write our future exactly the way we want to. If we want to take bits and pieces of advice and sprinkle it on our beautiful love story we can….IF WE WANT TO! Here’s the thing, before we decided to get married we had deeeep conversations about how sacred marriage was and how important it was that we take these vows serious by our actions. We both learned a few things while we were engaged. One thing was that we had two different definitions of what marriage was, but this is because we grew up two totally different ways. ย We didn’t make each other feel like the other persons image was wrong tho. We talked about the things that we witnessed between our parents. We talked about how they resolved conflict and how they disciplined us.

Although we were raised differently and we have two different outlooks in life we came together and agreed that we would do this the way we wanted. Whatever works for us is what we will go with.

3 months down and a lifetime to go..

2 thoughts on “Marriage is…what YOU want it to be!

  1. Yes it will work as long as other people stay out of your marriage and put God first and respect each other love each continent it will work out ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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  2. I like the way yall are a family and have your way to raise your family. Not your parents definition, but yall definition. You’re right keep people out and God first and it all will work. Make it last forever๐Ÿ’• Blended family. Love it

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